Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts

Friday, June 12, 2009

Everything Old Is New Again

I think it might be time to archive the blog. In the 2 years or so that I have been blogging I have covered all the important "stuff" and (gasp) I might be recycling old material. In an unending quest to be current I asked myself "what is so important that I'm blogging about?" Our sons, our holidays together, our family, friends and collective memories. Upon reflection, that is what our lives consist of -no more, no less. My older sons have learned everything they know about my parents from this blog. There is no better motivation to continue blogging. My mother grew up in a small - strike that - tiny house in Greenpoint, New York. Her home was a 2 bedroom bungalow probably no more than 900 square feet in size. Greenpoint was a part of Brooklyn where the Irish, Polish and Germans sought to dominate the neighborhood and eyed each other warily. My mother was from neutral/Irish territory and my father's German family rented apartments in mostly Polish neighborhoods. My mother, Georgette, slept on a pull out sofa in the living room of this Brooklyn bungalow. She lived with her own widowed mother Mary O'Grady, her blind grandmother Catherine Madden, and her two bachelor uncles Thomas and William who were retired NYC firefighters. She termed her childhoold as an idyllic upbringing. Their family always had food during the Great Depression and she spent her summers in another tiny rented cottage at Rockaway Beach. Mom grew up adored and surrounded by love which explains a lot about how she approached life. There were only 2 pieces of furniture remaining from the Brooklyn bungalow. An armoire which my father sold along with the house in Suffield, and a battered table. It was the convertible dining room table Mom grew up with in Greenpoint. Long before the days of custom, granite encrusted eat-in kitchens every room served double or even triple duty. This table sat in the living room which served as Mom's bedroom after dark. Just before supper its leaves would come out from underneath, a tablecloth would go on and the utensil drawer (in the center of the table) would serve up knives and forks for the evening meal. Lunch was called dinner and evening meal was termed supper. This dog eared relic resided in our basement in Suffield until we got furniture in the basement and turned it into a rec room. It served as a sofa table for a few years (1982-1988), got chewed on by our golden retriever puppy (1984) and became progressively wobbly until it became too shabby and was shuttled back into the recesses of the dark basement (1990). It was then moved to Lisa's house (1995), then back to mine (1996). Since then, Mark and I have moved it no less than 3 times, never using it. Over recent years it almost fell from our consciousness. Someone attempted to refinish it and gave up not long into the project - but not before the top became scarred and bubbled from the aborted effort. June 2009. I got the name of a reputable furniture restorer some months ago. 2 weeks ago some strange sense of urgency overtook me and I called Minuteman Furniture Restoration come out to look at the table. We agreed on price after a bit of haggling and The Minuteman expressed sincere reservations about the damage to the table and his ability to repair it - the dog chews, the bubbled veneer, the shaky Duo-Fold leaves. He dated the table at circa 1925-1930. The original tag on the bottom of the table read "H.P. Robertson", Jamestown, New York. Some quick research revealed that Robertson manufactured only tables and went out of business in 1938. This type of fold up leaf table is called a Jacobean table and was in vogue just before the Great Depression. This coincides with the date my great-grand uncles bought the Brooklyn bungalow in 1923. Minuteman determined the table to be solid walnut with a thick walnut veneer on the top. In short order a craftsman and his tools erased all evidence of animal bites and age. The table was delivered today - what a thrill! It is solid, fully restored and gleaming in our living room.

Sunday, September 7, 2008

"Fatti Maschii, Parole Femine"

We had a nice Labor Day Visit to Maryland to experience the special wonders of the state known as the Old Line State with my sister Rachel and her husband, Dennis. We were immersed into the 100% culture of Maryland and Austria during those 96 hours. After a lovely and rainy day on Friday watching the country's reaction to Vice-Presidential Nominee Sarah Palin we took off for the Maryland State Fair on Saturday. It was quite a blast. Andrew and David met one of the tiniest women in the world at the West Indian Cultural Exhibit named Gloria Rodin. They are still talking about their lilliputian lady friend. We went on lots of rides and took in the horse races. Uncle Dennis and Mark brought 20 beers into the fair in their cooler and managed on a hot day to polish them all off. Then it was back home to the catered wonders of 3 dozen Maryland blue crabs seasoned with Old Bay and all the accompaniments. Mark and Andrew attacked the crabs with gusto and were converted into big fans of the crabby, cooked crustaceans. The next day found us at a neighbor's pool party with even more Maryland crabs which were cooked onsite by a self proclaimed "Eastern Shore Hillbilly" of Maryland. We returned home on Monday, September 1st to get ready for the first day of school. September 2nd dawned as a perfect day - it was also our 14th wedding anniversary. Andrew and David are old pros now at the routine of a school morning but it was still hard to believe that 5th and 2nd grade were upon us. The nights are becoming cooler which portends fall. Fall is one of our favorite seasons but we are all sadly bidding the Summer of '08 goodbye. The fennel harvest which William is holding will soon turn to winter squash and storage onions.
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Wednesday, August 13, 2008

We are Growing

 
Here is a family photo from last year. Amazing to see how the kids grow but the parents and grandparents never age!
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Saturday, August 2, 2008

Family Ties

The happiest moments of my life have been the few which I have passed at home in the bosom of my family. ~Thomas Jefferson
They make me crazy at times. We love them, we fight and we laugh - A LOT. Red Sox versus Yankees. Patriots versus Jets. Tall versus short. New York versus New England. The cousins are a hoot to watch.
Our parents/grandparents also join us for a night at Canoe Island Lodge every year. Connie and John have a lot of laughs seeing our Week #6 friends every year including a family that John worked with at New York Life years ago. A small world.
Not sure if we would want to - but there is no escaping the ties that bind.
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Wednesday, April 16, 2008

The Schwalbachs Rise Again

We travelled back to where it all began today - Long Island! Lisa, me, and our collective five children. Lili brought some some snacks and we took to the road around 9:45 a.m. on a beautiful spring day in the Sequoia (nicknamed "Abomindable") . Our gas guzzler ate up around $80.00 of Saudi Arabian crude oil and then we put the navigation on and headed south. A good ride, despite the fact that the DVD player would not work b/c of a dead battery in the remote control. We arrived at 12:45 pm - only 1 hour and 15 minutes late. I'ld try and blame it on Lisa who Mom always said would be late to her own funeral - but it was a 3 hour ride and we didn't really leave until 10:00 a.m. A bit of a late start and a scattering of trouble once we got to Babylon but we eventually pulled up on Anderson Avenue to see Uncle Gene on the lawn waving to us!! Lisa had not seen Uncle Gene in 5 years and I saw him last at Aunt Pat's funeral in October. It was great to see him up North again and in good spirits. Ann G. is absolutely lovely and they seem happy to be together. Ann has 5 grandsons and so had a full crate of toy trucks ready for the boys. Her fenced yard was a perfect remedy for 3.5 hours in the car and all the kids ran around like nuts. Uncle Gene and Andrew had a catch in the backyard and then we all had some amazing New York pizza and salads. As if on queue, the faint sounds of a calliope in the distance and then Lili yelled "the ice cream man" and we all went out to the street. God bless Long Island. The ice cream truck had Dora pops, toasted almonds, and rocket pops to go around. Everyone had a wonderful visit and we sang Happy Birthday to Uncle Gene before heading out again to visit my biological Granny and Auntie just down the street. I am still amazed at the intersections in the lives of my biological and adoptive families. The dearest friends of my godparents live within spitting distance of my biological grandmother and aunt. And have for at least 20 years. Amazing stuff.
Marianne, Kate, Zach and Gram were waiting for our arrival with Italian cookies, an immaculate house and plenty of water bottles. Kate, Andrew and David immediately took off while Claire, Willie and Katie trailed after them. Their beautiful home was enjoyed and we all had a nice chat. They graciously packed up the Italian cookies, Jordan Almonds and extra water bottles. Thank goodness they did. We ended up in traffic on the Southern State Parkway at rush hour, a Yankees/Red Sox game traffic and 5 exhausted and tired kids. We sang songs, passed water bottles around and eventually arrived home at 9:10 p.m. A good time was had by all.
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